Parents may be the world's most important and most difficult job, especially in China. Every
parent wants their children Jackie Chan Cheng-feng, but really know how
to scientifically not many parents in family education. A
previously healthy beautiful children, and if improper training,
resulting in a child's psychological health, is not only cruel, letting
parents regret it? After years of work, I continue to see a lot of parents "to love is not love," into one misunderstanding, it is alert.
First, the parents of the child the spirit of light weight material. The sixties and seventies,Gucci
Necklace even the parents born in the 80s, the material on his own childhood are often unsatisfactory. They're young, that one of the greatest joy and happiness, is occasionally get a piece of candy or have a doll. When
they have children, feel the child's favorite method is to give him
good things, children want to buy, even if we try to meet your point.
I
do psychology on television talk shows such a thing when you come into
contact, a single mother with a 16-year-old daughter to live with the
child body brand. Mother to live frugally, to meet the child's material needs. In
fact, parents do not know, for children living environment for creating
rich or too quickly agreed to the request of the child, the child will
have "a desire should be achieved naturally," so unrealistic to become
fragile heart, is difficult to withstand setbacks. In
fact, the material is secondary, to buy things in the process of
communication with their children, taught him hard work, and is the main
thing.
Secondly, the parents of the child re-IQ light EQ. Most parents, particularly after "the diploma," people generally believe that studying and have a good future. As everyone knows, today's society has undergone enormous changes in IQ in the success factors can only account for 30% ratio. Know how to live and lead a "high emotional intelligence," talent, may go more smoothly.
Recently,
a pair of parents to send their children to England to study abroad,
but even after a child to London did not out of the airport, stayed only
48 hours to buy a full price return ticket home, student life hasty
end.
The reason is simple, the
scheduled pick-up late for the company because the car is faulty, the
children do not know how to run. The 48 hours of students, it is important children's education in a typical IQ light EQ. In
addition to learn, more importantly, children learn to identify and
control their emotions and intelligently with people, good social
adaptation.
Finally, parents of school-age children after re-light pre-school. Most people believe that children grow up, and wiser, is when the parents most in need. Fact may on the contrary, children need parents the degree of increase with Gucci
Braceletage but will diminish. Newborns, infants and preschool children, is the person most in need of care when their parents. Therefore,
raising the children by others, will suddenly have a strong separation
anxiety and will likely insecure, sensitive, withdrawn, or even
psychological resistance, such as communication barriers.
Therefore, parents should "make a determined effort", however hard it must adhere to a few years, their children close at hand. Even if you help the elderly, do not give up their childcare responsibilities.
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